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Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Asking for What We Need

I love dining out! But have you ever considered the deeper meaning behind the act of asking for what we need? What if we extended this practice beyond the dining table and into our daily lives? In this blog post, let’s explore the transformative power of vulnerability and the importance of expressing our needs to foster connection, understanding, and support.

Asking for What We Need: When we sit down at a restaurant, we are presented with a menu that offers a variety of options to satisfy our cravings and nourish our bodies. Similarly, in life, we have emotional and psychological needs that deserve to be acknowledged and met. By having the courage to ask for what we need, we open the door to deeper connections and genuine understanding.

The Power of Love and Validation: One of our fundamental needs is to be loved and validated. We all desire to feel seen, heard, and valued by those around us. By expressing our need for love and validation, we invite others to connect with us on a deeper level, fostering a sense of belonging and acceptance. When we communicate our needs openly and honestly, we create an environment where love and validation can flourish.

The Gift of Presence and Listening: Another essential need we have is to be seen and heard. We long for someone to truly listen, without judgment or interruption, allowing us to express ourselves authentically. When we voice our need to be seen and heard, we invite others to practice active listening and offer their undivided attention. This act of presence creates a safe space for vulnerability and deepens our connections with others.

The Comfort of Reassurance: In times of uncertainty and difficulty, we often crave reassurance. We need to hear that everything will be okay, that we are not alone in our struggles. By expressing our need for reassurance, we allow others to offer comfort, support, and words of encouragement. This reassurance can provide solace and help us navigate challenging moments with renewed strength and resilience.

Asking for what we need is a powerful act of vulnerability and self-care. Just like selecting our desired dish from a menu, expressing our emotional and psychological needs allows us to nourish our souls and cultivate deeper connections with others. So, let us embrace the courage to ask for what we need – whether it is love, validation, presence, listening, or reassurance. Together, we can create a world where vulnerability is celebrated, needs are met, and genuine connections thrive.

Remember, it is okay to ask for what you need. Your needs are valid, and by expressing them, you empower yourself to live a more authentic, fulfilled life.

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Hi love, I’m Silvia!

I’m a specialist in starting over. 

Trauma revealed truths that took me to some faraway places for healing and wisdom. In Bali, South America, New Zealand, Australia, Laos, Hawaii and Malaysia, I soaked it up, took bold actions, and expanded what was possible for me.

Through all of this I learned something profound; the power of resiliency can be taught and even making a 5% change can change the future dramatically.

Now I teach women like you to access the power within you to change your life, celebrate your genius and start over to create any life you dare to dream.